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Jason Hochstedler
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Chief Bullshit Pile Manager
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Join date: Nov 27, 2025
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May 1, 2026 ∙ 5 min
Trying: The Soft Language of Stagnation
Here’s the part most people won’t say out loud: “trying” protects your identity. If you fully commit and fail, it forces a confrontation you’d rather avoid. Maybe you’re not as disciplined, focused, or strong as you thought. Maybe you don’t have it figured out. Maybe you’re not in control. That’s uncomfortable, so instead you stay in “trying,” where you can always fall back on the same excuse: “well, I didn’t really go all in.” That’s not humility, that’s ego hiding behind effort.
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Apr 16, 2026 ∙ 7 min
Saving Space for Other People's Pile!
Now hear me clearly. This is not about enabling nonsense. This is not about excusing toxic behavior or pretending dysfunction is acceptable. That is not what I am saying. There is a difference between holding space and carrying someone else’s pile for them. You are not called to drag their mess around like it is yours. That is a fast track to burnout and resentment.
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Apr 9, 2026 ∙ 4 min
The Bullshit of Excuses
That’s where most people live. Not in denial of their problems, but in explanation of them. They know what’s wrong. They can articulate it. They can break it down. They can tell you exactly why they struggle, exactly why things haven’t changed, exactly why they are the way they are. But none of that changes anything. Because explanation without action is just a polished excuse.
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