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That hits harder than people want it to. Because most people aren’t lazy. They’re just misaligned. They’re working hard. They’re doing things. They’re staying busy. But they’re avoiding the one thing they know they should be doing. And the longer they avoid it, the easier it becomes to justify. “I’ll get to it.” “I just need a little more time.” “Things are just crazy right now.” And maybe they are. But they’re always going to be something.

He had already decided what healing should look like. Already decided how it should happen. Already decided what would make it feel valid. And when reality didn’t match his expectation, he rejected it. Not because it wouldn’t work, but because he didn’t like how it worked. That’s control. That’s the Bullshit Factor in its cleanest form.